A fake, spam, account messaged me on my Xbox while… T? I think I referred to her as that before.. My current girlfriend.. T was using hulu on my console. The message read “Hey are you around?” This resulted in her becoming highly anxious and spending two hours (3:30am-5:30am) interrogating me over the message as well as accusing me of essentially cheating on her. After two hours I finally convinced her of the truth, while she was on her way to work, that I had no clue who this person was and that it was likely a spam account.
It is now a little past 6am and I am so drunk that my entire body is numb. I am fighting off panicking over that sensation by writing this.
After T left for work, I began heavily drinking to cope with the severe stress and anxiety of the situation. An unhealthy practice, I know.
Ah, fuck it.
Here it goes.
I hate every fucking minute of my life. I can’t stand my relationship. T treats me as if I were property. She controls and monitors every aspect of my life. She encourages me spending time with my friends yet she took all of my friends away except a select few who I am unable to see with any frequency. I don’t know what to do. I don’t know who to be.
I am so unhappy. I am so fucking unhappy. I wish I could leave her. I am not in love with her. I think I do love her, but not romantically. She is important, she always has been since we started talking, but I cannot be with her and I don’t want to be. But I can’t leave. I can’t allow myself to.
What the fuck is wrong with me??
Why the fuck can’t I let this go??
Why can’t I let her go??
Is it the guilt I feel for leaving her after she moved to a different state to be with me?
But should I even feel that guilt?
She tries to leave me almost every day.
I want to let her.
I want to let her go so fucking badly.
But I can’t.
I cling to her so fucking tightly.
What the fuck is wrong with me.
I’m a selfish piece of shit.
Fuck me.
I am a useless, piece of fucking shit, asshole, who only cares about himself, his own needs, his own ambitions, and his own feelings.
I don’t know who I am.
I don’t know who I want to be.
I hate being an adult.
I hate being alive.
I hate taking responsibility for my life and my future.
I want to return to being a teenager.
I wish I could turn back the clock.
I am so fucking terrified of the future and I have no one to help me through it. I have no one to lean on.
I don’t trust myself.
I don’t like myself.
I don’t know who I am.
I need help.
I need guidance.
I need friendship.
I need camaraderie.
I need fucking someone.
Anyone.
I need help to decipher the meaning of my life or fuck, just the path of my life.
I just need someone.
I need a friend.
I need to get out of this.
FUCK
FUCK
FUCK
I AM TRAPPED
I AM STUCK
I CANNOT LEAVE
I CANNOT FIND THE COURAGE TO BE WHO I WANT TO BE
WHO DO I EVEN WANT TO BE?
I DON’T KNOW!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
FUCK!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I CAN’T HANDLE THIS
I CAN’T HANDLE BEING ALIVE
I CAN’T HANDLE THE CONSTANT WONDERING OF WHO I WANT TO BE OR WHERE
I look back on the past with this nostalgic longing.
I miss M.
I miss C.
I miss C so much.
I never cry.
Why am I crying.
Why is any of this happening.
Why am I so fucking distraught.
Why am I such a fucking mess.
I’m sure T has called and texted multiple times by now.
Therapy isn’t helping.
I just need to sleep.
I’ll fell better when I’m sober.
I’m sorry.
I just need to sleep.
Best of Days,
-Elias